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3000 Orgasms: How I Went from a Sexless Marriage to a Multi-Orgasmic Wonderland Kindle Edition

4.6 out of 5 stars 31 ratings

In 3000 Orgasms, Rebecca Ferguson invites readers into a bold, transformative journey of sexual rediscovery. After two sexless years at the end of her marriage, Rebecca—a sex and relationship coach with a passion for data-driven insights—decided to take control of her pleasure and reclaim her connection to intimacy. What followed was an extraordinary year of self-exploration, during which she meticulously tracked her sexual experiences, ultimately achieving an astonishing 3,000 orgasms.

This isn’t just a story about numbers. It’s a candid account of empowerment, healing, and the courage to redefine intimacy. Combining vulnerability, humour, and data, Rebecca’s book is a shout out for women to prioritise their pleasure, rewrite their intimate lives, and embrace the joy they deserve.

Now post-menopausal and thriving in a deeply fulfilling partnership, Rebecca proves it’s never too late to redefine your narrative and achieve profound sexual and emotional connection.

Who Should Read This Book?

  • Women seeking to reconnect with their desires and redefine their intimate lives.
  • Those healing from passionless relationships or exploring sexuality after a breakup or life transition.
  • Couples looking to rekindle the spark and deepen their emotional and sexual connection.
  • Anyone ready to embrace self-love, empowerment, and the joy of intentional intimacy.

What You’ll Learn From This Book

1. Creating Your Intimacy Vision: Rebecca guides readers in crafting their own vision for intimacy, helping them align their desires, values, and goals to create a fulfilling and intentional sex life.

2. Reclaiming Pleasure as Self-Care: Discover how to prioritise pleasure as an essential part of self-love, resilience, and overall well-being.

3. Practicing Mindful Intimacy: Explore techniques for staying present during intimacy, enhancing connection with yourself and your partner.

4. Communicating Desires with Confidence: Gain practical strategies for expressing your fantasies, needs, and boundaries openly and effectively.

5. Embracing Sexual Empowerment: Celebrate your sensuality, rediscover your body’s potential, and explore your desires with curiosity and courage.

6. Sustaining Fulfillment in Relationships: Find actionable advice for keeping intimacy alive in long-term partnerships, ensuring growth and connection for years to come.

Why 3000 Orgasms Stands Out

Rebecca’s unique blend of emotional depth and analytical curiosity makes her story both relatable and groundbreaking. By tracking her experiences, Rebecca uncovered actionable insights that transformed her life and can inspire others to take control of their own intimate journeys.

This book challenges societal norms that often leave women disconnected from their bodies, deprioritising pleasure in favour of external demands. Rebecca’s story is a testament to the transformative power of self-love, encouraging women to break free from limiting beliefs and explore what intimacy can truly mean.

Start your journey today. Rediscover intimacy. Reclaim your pleasure. Rewrite your story.


From the Publisher

Five stars for Rebecca Ferguson's Bold New Book

5 star review for Rebecca Ferguson's bold new book

Reedsy Reviewer Calls Rebecca's book a "Must-Read for those ready to embark on a journey of intimate awakening."

The reviews are coming in for Rebecca Ferguson's bold new book, which charts how she went from a passionless marriage to a pleasure wonderland."

Emily Omondi from Reedsy goes on to say:

  • The frankness with which Rebecca writes makes this book stand out.
  • This book is a perfect fit for those ready to embark on an intimately awakening journey.
  • In this book, Rebecca shares her childhood, marriage, and battle with cancer, and above all, she openly talks about her deepest desires.
  • It’s packed with information that I find helpful.

Find out what thousands of subscribers to Rebecca's Substack already know: Rebecca's bold and vulnerable take on her journey from a passionless marriage to peak pleasure will help you find your true intimate self.

Product details

  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0DDKYQKVX
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Rebecca Ferguson
  • Accessibility ‏ : ‎ Learn more
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ January 31, 2025
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 1.7 MB
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 194 pages
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1763679320
  • Page Flip ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.6 out of 5 stars 31 ratings

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Rebecca Ferguson
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Rebecca Ferguson is a sex, dating and relationship coach and author who has dedicated her career to helping individuals navigate the complex world of love, sex and relationships. After going through a challenging divorce in her late 30s, Rebecca embarked on a transformative journey of self-discovery, which led her to redefine what love and sexual fulfilment mean. Four years after her divorce, she found love again, but this time with a deeper understanding of herself and what she truly needed in a relationship.

In her recent best-selling release, "3000 Orgasms", Rebecca Ferguson, a self-described data nerd, takes you on an extraordinary adventure from the confines of a sexless marriage to the liberating joy of becoming a multi-orgasmic woman. In this inspiring memoir, Rebecca shares her early struggles with sexuality, the challenges of two passion-less years at the end of her marriage, and her courageous journey into singledom, where she finally embraced her desires and began to thrive. With honesty and wit, she recounts how she tracked her sexual experiences using an app, leading to a staggering tally of 3000 orgasms in just one year.

Now post-menopausal having recovered from uterine cancer, Rebecca continues to explore the depths of her sexuality. In her current release, "The Soulmate Equation: The Ultimate Formula for Finding, Dating and Keeping a Quality Man", Rebecca draws on both her personal experiences and her professional expertise to guide readers in their search for meaningful love. Her approach is warm, relatable, and deeply compassionate, making her a trusted guide for anyone seeking to understand themselves and their relationships better.

Rebecca enjoys spending time with her children and connecting with her community. She is passionate about helping others find joy and fulfillment in their relationships, and she remains committed to supporting her clients and readers on their journey to love and sexual fulfilment.

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  • Reviewed in the United States on June 18, 2025
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    This book is very intense with descriptions and stories that most can relate to. 3000 orgasms taught me that there is a lot that goes into this. Feeling comfortable in your body, self care, being in the moment and not rushing is just an ice breaker.
  • Reviewed in the United States on May 23, 2025
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    Incredible - A formerly somewhat frigid woman discovers she is capable of having up to 15 orgasms a day! All with the same man. Rebecca’s partner Vern must be some kind of man! What a life they are experiencing together!

    Rebecca’s sexual experiences offer hope to a great many women. However her story did seem to lack warmth and intimacy and seemed very data-driven.
  • Reviewed in the United States on March 8, 2025
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    I think everyone should read these kinds of books. Sex is often a taboo topic. People do not like talking about it freely. You even buy books online and there is the warning “explicit content” as if we needed to warn people if a book talks about sex. Yet, intercourse is the absolutely most natural of human behaviors, and we need to feel free to explore our sexuality without worries and without preconceptions. For this reason, I think the work of the author is commendable. It makes you reflect on important questions. It helps you discover your sexuality. It helps you understand how to develop sexual well-being. It helps you rediscover the power of intimacy. It also helps you communicate better with your partner and share your worries, your fears, your desires, and your expectations. It is a good guide that I believe will make the sexual life of many people richer.
  • Reviewed in the United States on July 2, 2025
    Format: Kindle
    Ferguson shares her very personal journey in '3000 Orgasms' from feeling stuck in a sexless marriage to becoming full of joy and confidence in her body and pleasure. Interesting! And I had never heard of “pleasure windows” before, but now I understand how important it is to know the best times in your day for intimacy. Ferguson even used data to track her experiences, which made her journey not just emotional but smart and helpful too. She teaches you how to love yourself, feel strong in your body again, communicate what you really want, and so much more. I also enjoyed learning about different types of orgasms and how sex can be a form of healing. Great read!
  • Reviewed in the United States on April 10, 2025
    Format: Kindle
    I found this to be very informative and interesting to read. I am interested in finding out other books written by this author.

    I received a free copy of this book via Booksprout and am voluntarily leaving a review.
  • Reviewed in the United States on February 14, 2025
    Format: Kindle
    Rebecca Ferguson's "3000 Orgasms" is a courageous and transformative memoir that boldly chronicles one woman's journey from a sexless marriage to a vibrant and empowered exploration of her own sexuality, offering readers a deeply personal yet universally resonant story of self-discovery, healing, and reclaiming pleasure. While the title is undeniably attention-grabbing, this book transcends shock value, delving into a candid and insightful exploration of female intimacy, communication, and the vital importance of prioritizing personal pleasure as an act of self-care and empowerment.

    After two years of a sexless marriage, Rebecca Ferguson, a sex and relationship coach, decided to take radical action to rediscover her own sexuality and reclaim intimacy on her own terms. "3000 Orgasms" is the intimate and data-driven account of her year-long experiment in self-exploration, during which she meticulously tracked her sexual experiences and embarked on a journey to understand her desires, needs, and the profound connection between pleasure and well-being. This memoir details not just the pursuit of orgasms, but the emotional and psychological landscape of navigating a passionless relationship, healing from heartbreak, and ultimately, rewriting her narrative around intimacy and joy, leading to a fulfilling sexual life and partnership in her post-menopausal years.

    "3000 Orgasms" is a brave, insightful, and ultimately inspiring memoir that transcends its attention-grabbing title to offer a valuable exploration of female sexuality, empowerment, and the pursuit of pleasure as a vital aspect of self-care and well-being. Rebecca Ferguson's vulnerability, coupled with her analytical approach, makes for a compelling and transformative read that challenges societal norms and encourages women to take ownership of their intimate lives and rewrite their own stories of pleasure and connection.

    Highly recommended for women seeking to reconnect with their desires, heal from passionless relationships, or explore their sexuality after life transitions. It is also valuable for couples seeking to rekindle intimacy and for anyone interested in a candid and empowering perspective on female pleasure and sexual self-discovery. Readers who appreciate memoirs that blend personal vulnerability with actionable self-help insights will find "3000 Orgasms" particularly rewarding.

    A courageous, empowering, and surprisingly insightful memoir that earns a solid 4 out of 5 stars for its vulnerability, transformative message, and valuable guidance on reclaiming pleasure and rewriting the narrative around female intimacy.

    I received a free copy of this book via Booksprout and am voluntarily leaving a review.
  • Reviewed in the United States on January 31, 2025
    Format: Kindle
    While the title is intentionally eye-catching, don’t let the number fool or, depending on the reader, intimidate you into thinking that this book is only about getting to the climax (of the story, of course).

    The author takes the reader on a journey of discovery, through deeply personal and, at times, both incredibly heartbreaking and sobering moments to inform and declare that with the right mindset, the right partner (or partners), and the proper self-understanding and communication, it is never too late in life to find pleasure and reclaim your birthright to enjoy pleasure on your own terms.

    It a touching book with exercises that allow a reader to map their own pleasure journey and figure out if more is desired and how to bridge gaps that keep those desires from transpiring. While we don’t all have to follow the author in her footsteps, her courage to showcase her own journey and allow us to bear witness to moments of pain and vulnerability should not only be applauded, but should also give us the opportunity to hope that, wherever we are in our own journeys, with self-honesty and commitment to ourselves and to our needs, wants, and desires, we can experience better moments to come.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on February 27, 2025
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    It helped me and my wife explore our intimacy and really opened things up.

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  • Hayley
    5.0 out of 5 stars Incredible, Raw, and Surprisingly Insightful!
    Reviewed in Australia on February 13, 2025
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    Rebecca’s story is absolutely incredible—raw, honest, and full of self-discovery. Even though I’m in a happy long-term marriage, I found so many valuable takeaways, especially for keeping the spark alive. The chapter on mindfulness in sex was a standout, offering a fresh perspective on deepening intimacy. A bold, empowering read that I highly recommend!
  • Madeline Edel
    5.0 out of 5 stars Informative read.
    Reviewed in Canada on February 20, 2025
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    This book was such a fresh and interesting read.
    The author was fearless in making this book about her own sexual experiences that led to her helping others with theirs. A lot of insightful and useful settings of information. I definitely recommend reading this fun and interesting book.
  • Stacey
    5.0 out of 5 stars refreshing
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on May 6, 2025
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    This was such an open and brave read - Rebecca’s story felt genuine and powerful. I appreciated her honesty and the way she spoke about pleasure without awkwardness or guilt. It really made me think differently about intimacy and self-connection.
  • Sanja Bosnjakov
    5.0 out of 5 stars Un libro coraggioso e motivante
    Reviewed in Italy on May 23, 2025
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    "3000 Orgasmi" è un libro interessante e coraggioso, anche se la parte autobiografica iniziale mi ha coinvolta meno. Ho trovato invece molto utile e motivante la seconda parte, dedicata all’esperimento personale dell’autrice, e la terza, rivolta direttamente al lettore, ricca di spunti concreti per riflettere sul proprio benessere e piacere. Un invito sincero a riscoprirsi e a prendersi cura di sé.
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  • Richmondovich
    5.0 out of 5 stars A sincere recount of sexuality
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on April 2, 2025
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    This book is a refreshing, authentic and honest recount of a sexual journey that holds secrets that can help many women achieve their goal of an improved sex life. I think the author laid herself bare and vulnerable, and this vulnerability is invaluable to others who may be too shy to approach or address the matter of female sexuality.

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